If clients push, this is why
If clients keep pushing, it’s tempting to make it a personality problem.
“I just need to be firmer.”
“I need to hold the line better.”
“I need to stop being so nice.”
But many boundary problems aren’t personality problems.
They’re process problems.
Clients don’t follow your intentions. They follow what gets rewarded.
If you bend once because they’re stressed, confused, loud, late, or “special,” they learn something important:
Push = custom service.
And now they push again.
Here’s the shift: clients behave the way your system trains them to behave.
If you don’t want to do custom work every time someone whines, you need a standard process that stays standard.
The line to keep handy:
“Thanks for asking. It’s best for everyone if we stick to the process. Here’s the process.”
The next time you feel the urge to rescue a client, use the line instead.
If holding boundaries feels harder than it should, you don’t have to figure them out alone.
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